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Causes of Youth Perversion
Shaykh Abdul Muhsin Al Qassim [(Rabee'ul Awwal 29, 1424 (May 30, 2003)]
All praise is due to Allaah, Lord of all the
worlds. Peace and blessings of Allaah be upon the Messenger, his household and
companions.
Fellow Muslims! Allaah created His servants on a sound and balanced nature. He
sent Messengers to confirm and perfect that. Young people are fertile and open
ground for all that is introduced to them, either good or bad; and they readily
accept whichever of the good or false ideologies, and excellent or bad morals
that comes their way. The
Messenger of Allaah said, “Every child is naturally born on Islaamic Monotheism.
It is his parents that makes out of him a Jew, a Christian or a Magian.”
Youths’ minds are a target for the enemies of Islaam who have different ways of
luring young Muslims into their snares through temptations or misconceptions.
They do this in order to drag them into the abyss of lusts, whims and forbidden
things. Hence, the only way to protect the youths against these wolves is to
fortify them with the Islaamic knowledge that increases man in light and
cognizance and keeps him away from filthy actions. The seeker of knowledge is
counted among the great people. Allaah says,
“Allaah will raise those who have believed among you those
who were given knowledge, by degrees.”
(Al-Mujaadilah 58:11)
A learned person will behave in a way that will make him live eternally in
Paradise. All creatures will be pleased with him and they will ask forgiveness
for him. The Angels will love keeping his company. Respecting Islaam and the law
of Islaam necessitates respecting the scholars of Islaam, for they are the heirs
of the Prophets, as affirmed by the Messenger of Allaah, blessings and peace be
upon him. It is our obligation to respect them and honour them. That is the way
of our righteous predecessors. Sulaymaan bin Rabee‘ said, “I would not dare
drink water while Imaam Ash-Shaafi‘ee looked at me out of respect for him.”
Asking questions from them is knowledge, sitting with them is happiness, keeping
their company refines character and protects the youth from going astray, by the
will of Allaah. Maymoon bin Mahraan said, “I found the refinement of my heart in
sitting with the scholars.”
The benefit of sitting with the scholars does not end with acquiring knowledge
only; it also includes emulating them in their guidance, conduct,
high-mindedness and other desirable traits. Youth’s keeping away from them leads
to lack of interest in knowledge, intellectual arrogance and insufficient acts
of worship.
The youths must keep away from causes of temptation, misconceptions and lusts.
Our Prophet sought protection against temptations and asked his companions to do
the same. The Prophet said, “Whoever seeks for fitnah, he will be overwhelmed by
it.” (Al-Bukhaaree)
The pure religion of Islaam commands us to adhere to two lights: the Qur’aan and
the Sunnah; and it forbids us from following all that cause corruption to the
hearts.
Whenever a doubt or a misconception enters the heart, it would be difficult to
remove it. Shaykhul-Islaam Ibn Taymiyyah said, “Whenever a man exposes himself
to a calamity, Allaah will leave him to himself.”
Negligence in performing obligations, committing forbidden things, addiction of
the youth to satellite channels and his running after objectionable things; each
of these is a gateway to moral corruption and perverted ideologies. When the
heart is darkened by sins, it becomes difficult for it to carry out good deeds
and it becomes easy for it to accept falsehood. Causing doubts in the hearts of
young children as regards their educational curricula weaken their aim of
achieving knowledge.
Changes and events of our contemporary world and occurrence of crises
necessitate that our religious curricula be increased in content. They should be
adequately explained and the students should not be burdened with too many
unnecessary non-religious subjects. There is a dire need for religious
knowledge.
An educational system that is based on religion and practice is the factor that
made this country blooming with erudite scholars of Islaamic law, who are
consulted for religious counseling and have won the confidence of many Muslims
in the area of guidance and propagation of Islaam.
By the grace of Allaah, it is in the light of this religious-based educational
system that ministers, government advisers, writers, journalists, physicians and
economists were nurtured. It is this educational system that produced all those
who took part in the development of our cultural and religious values. It is
therefore, an act of gratitude to praise an educational system that produced
these fruits.
Brethren in faith! Mass media is the window through which the society sees the
world. It should pay an adequate attention to the youths through guidance,
sincere advice and giving religious counseling. Demeaning the religion or
mocking religious people or attacking them only poisons the youths’ minds
against their religion. Praising the youths and guiding them are proper ways of
protecting them against the enemies whose aim is to kidnap young people with
their sweet talk and rhetoric.
The noble Qur’aan is the Word of Allaah. Its recitation brings down tranquility,
and reflection over its meaning increases faith and removes darkness. Allaah
says about the Qur’aan,
“There has come to you a light and a clear Book.”
(Al-Maaidah 5:15)
Abundance of Qur’aanic memorization classes in the mosques throughout this
country and the care that the authorities have for them is a source of pride and
gratitude. Allaah has guarded many youths from corruption through these classes
and He has protected His religion by them. These classes have done good to many
an orphan, blocked many an evil way, and increased many in knowledge and
understanding. The Qur’aan is the foundation of all sciences and the source of
all good morals. Directing youths to memorize the Qur’aan is a protection for
them against evils, temptations and perverted ideas.
Having excessive free time is an element of ideological and moral perversion.
The unlawful modern games and the satellite channels also play an unenviable
role in corrupting the youths ideologically. A wise father would not allow these
channels and games into his house in other to avert an avoidable sorrow and
distress.
Fellow Muslims! The widened gap between a father and his child is one of the
factors that prevent the child from revealing what is in his heart to his father
and revealing it to others who do not know how to educate or how guide a young
person, and who neither loves him and have affection for him as his father does.
Therefore, bringing your children closer to you, speaking with them freely and
exchanging views with them, without neglecting fatherly respect is a safety for
the children, peace of mind for the parents and a foundation for dutifulness to
parents.
Friends also play a vital role in corrupting or reforming an individual. The
Messengers of Allaah attached great importance to a good company. Allaah informs
us that Prophet ‘Eesaa told his disciples,
“Who are my supporters for Allaah?”
(As-Saff 61:14)
Our Prophet Muhammad also appointed a companion who helped him in the cause of
his mission. He said, “If I had to appoint an intimate friend among my
followers, I would have appointed Aboo Bakr as my intimate friend. But he is my
brother and companion. ‘Aaishah said, “I entered into the age of discretion and
found my parents already practicing Islaam. The Messenger of Allaah then used to
come to our house every morning and afternoon while he was in Makkah.”
The righteous companion brings you good. He reminds you when you forget,
encourages you when you appear negligent, shows you love when you are with him
and guard your name when you are absent. The bad companion on the other hand
only runs after his passions and whims. Whenever he attains what he wants from
you he abandons you. He brings you close to every evil and keeps every good
thing away from you. He cannot be trusted on worldly things and on the Day of
Resurrection you will regret your companionship with him. Allaah says,
“And the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands (in
regret), he will say, “Oh I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way. Oh woe to
me, I wish I had not taken that one as a friend. He led me away from the
remembrance after it had come to me. And ever is Satan to man a deserter.”
(Al-Furqaan 25:27-29)
Dear brother! Befriend only the righteous people and take pride in their
company. Keep away from those who will harm you in matters of your religion and
worldly life.
Brethren in faith! Women have an influential role to play in nurturing and
guiding the youth. When the woman abandons her role in the house, neglects her
home and frequently goes out, the children will not find the motherly compassion
and love that they need and they will not find in the house except the maids,
who are not of their race and culture. In this case, the children will lose
their mother’s compassion and eventually opt for those who will deceive them
with sweet talk and future dreams.
Islaam places a great and noble responsibility on the mother’s shoulder. The
Prophet said, “The woman is a shepherd in the house of her husband.”
It is from the bosom of the woman that scholars and noble men emerged. There is
greater honor and respect for the woman more than the responsibility of home
management. It is therefore incumbent on her to shoulder her responsibilities
lest she regrets. She should not listen to those who are calling her to abandon
her kingdom and neglect her children. Allaah says,
“Whoever is guided is only for the [benefit of] his soul.
And whoever errs only errs against it. And no bearer of burden will bear the
burden of another. And never would We punish until We sent a Messenger.”
(Al-Israa 17:15)
Fellow Muslims! Family is a strong foothold in Islaam. It is in the shade of it
that souls meet in love and compassion. Allaah swears with the children and
fathers to underline the importance of the family. He says in His Glorious Book,
“And [by] the father and that which was born of him.”
(Al-Balad 90:3)
Taking proper care of the children is the habit of the righteous ones and the
children’s uprightness is the source of happiness for the pious fathers and
mothers whose invocation is always,
“Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring
comfort to our eyes and make us a leader [i.e., example] for the righteous.”
(Al-Furqaan 25:74)
The first thing to implant in the hearts of the children is god-consciousness.
The Prophet, blessings and peace be upon him, told Ibn ‘Abbaas while was a young
boy, “O lad! Be conscious of Allaah, He will protect you. Be conscious of Allaah,
you will always find Him wherever you face.”
The children are in need of education and knowledge and they need to know how to
spend their time in useful things. The Prophet, blessings and peace be upon him,
said, “Be keen on that which benefits you.”
The father should provide his children with things that will benefit them and
keep off them those things that are harmful to them. Pious friends should be
sought out for them.
Fellow Muslims! Children’s good upbringing depends on their parents’ adherence
to the Islaamic injunctions and whenever the parents are upright, the children
will emulate them and they are thereby saved from negligence and error.
As for you the son, you should know that your parents’ hope is to have a good
repute and excellent conduct and to be upright in your religion. They also hope
that you stay away from humiliating traits and that you do fall prey to moral
and ideological perversion and lusts. Do not, therefore, disappoint them in the
face of a moment’s lust. Keep only good friends and keep the company of the
scholars and righteous men in order to achieve success in this world and the
Hereafter.
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